Happiness is Hard!

imageYou may not know me, or I, You, but that is irrelevant.
A Power greater than us determined we need to be on each other’s paths in this specific moment, for reasons beyond our human understanding, and that is sufficient for me.

As Christmas is only a few days away, and I sense more an energy of fear that it is not enough, reaching a boiling point, rather than joy and peace, I need to remind myself and you, whether we know one another or not, that I didn’t plan to write this post and if you read it, there must be a reason and to not hesitate to do what your heart, not mind, tells you to do.

Most times, because of the constant messages in the media, that everything is perfect, everyone is happy and “what is wrong with you,” if you are not part of this super happy crowd, it is next to impossible to admit you might not be happy, and even more difficult to reach out for support.

It is for this reason that I decided to voice this message, which comes from my heart and which I hope, reaches yours.
Perhaps,some day, you will offer your hand to strangers and comfort them.

Imagine a field of flowers, each beautiful on its own, but at times we need to see, touch and smell the fragrance of a bouquet of flowers. To see them all together. Each has its own scent and shape, and for that reason, their unique beauty is even more powerful as they stand together! One is not more or less beautiful than another, but different. It is their uniqueness which makes them even more memorable, just as the human race! One person is not more meaningful than another, but each is unique, different and important! I cannot, or wish to imagine fields of flowers all the same color, scent and shape! Would you?
As, and if, you take a moment to read this message, please know that it is not significant that a hand is small, big, young or old. All it matters is the willingness to offer support or ask for it. Many times, the greatest help is silence.
As a famous proverb reminds us, God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason.

This Christmas, remember that in our home, The EARTH, there are many hands willing to support the best they could!

I’m humbly offering a free, supportive hand. It is your decision whether to accept.

Rodica M.
M.S. Counseling and Clinical Psychology
Life Coach
Life Cross-Roads and Wellness

FREE Holiday Chats to Chase the Blues AWAY

Hello Friends,

As I did for Thanksgiving, as part of my DIRECT service to  the Universal Power we call God, will be available for chats with anyone who feels lonely or just feels a chat would do them good.Remember, we are all special in our own way and there is a part of God in each of us.

Please call, FREE (only cells and NO international calls please): 717 706 9503

Tuesday, December 24

Hours: 5:00 PM -8:00 PM

Thursday, December 25 (Christmas Day)

Hours: 2:00 PM -6 PM


Here come holidays again!—THE TRUTH!!!!!!! and HELP!!!!!

Oh! These two months, November and December, I’d like to vote a 10-month year! Instead of what we do, which,  it probably  never enough and gets us depressed, lets take a looooong trip to distress our brain cluttered with “things.”

In our business of psychotherapy it is known that holidays are not easy and the glittering façade makes more people sad than happy.

We already have Christmas Trees, bells, decorations….. and anxiety!


Some of you know I am by profession an online  Counselor.

In honor of the Holidays, I would like to offer my readers a gift of “chat” if they feel it would help them.

I will be available at:

Cell 717 706 903  (please no international calls or calls  from land line)

Beginning Wednesday   4-7 PM ; Thursday 11 AM to – 8 PM ;and Friday 12 – 2 PM

Please leave a message  if I  am on  line with another reader. Your call will be returned.

This is a personal gift of thank you and not connected to my regular job as an on line therapist at Proven Therapy where I am available daily and you could also contact me by personal email.


May we enjoy these Holydays together and distressed, in the spirit they were meant.

Readers are invited to write comments of delicious deserts and other fun cheap:) ideas.

We are on The East Coast.

BEST TO ALL and thank you or for chatting with me:) and be truthful.