This Weekend Movie Suggestion: Netflix – The Lost Honour of Christopher Jefferies- APPEARANCES ARE DECEIVING…

The Lost Honour of Christopher Jefferies is the perfect movie to watch on a rainy weekend like this… Especially if, perhaps, like me, you need to be reminded at times that many times evil comes in “normal,” or externally beautiful ways. Appearances are deceiving!

The movie, a BBC production based on real events, starring Jason Watkins,
is nothing short of extraordinary! His performance, so nuanced, I wondered how or whom did Watkins study to reach such perfection!

Jefferies, a retired school teacher of 34 years, whose “only fault” was eccentricity, is wrongly accused of murdering a young woman and hounded by media and misjudged by society on no real grounds.

A young man, who looked “normal” by the standards of our society, is overlooked at first but ultimately judged and punished as the real killer.

However, Jefferies life was already ruined: He was no longer welcomed to participate in activities dear and meaningful to him and many of those who befriended, turn their backs on him.
The emotional consequences are devastating! Jefferies, a kind, peaceful human being is forced to turn into a determined fighter in the name of ALL “the Jefferies” of the world, good people who are assumed guilty just because they are different from what our culture considers “normal.”

This masterpiece reminded me of the children’s Bear Family Book Series, specifically the book in which Mama Bear teaches the cubs about hidden dangers and deceiving appearances. She demonstrates how deceiving beauty could be by showing the cubs a beautiful, on the outside perfect, healthy apple. When she cuts it, the inside is brown and rotted…

There are many layers of messages in this exceptional movie, delivered through multiple channels of communication. Peter Morgan, who wrote it, delivered a powerful message, and each word is a jewel. However, Watkins’ acting is so nuanced, his facial expressions and body language so convincing, I felt I needed to watch the movie again and turn off the sound to focus on the images.

Next time I am tempted to judge “different” and assume it is “evil,” or “less,” or “wrong,” I will remember this movie which is based on true events. An official “Letter of Exonoration” is not enough to mend the tragic consequences of false accusations. It is easy to misjudge based on appearances and hard to ignore what our culture has taught us is normal!

Please share your opinion and/or story if you have a personal event when appearances were deceiving and led to unpleasant consequences. Food for thought…
Have a cozy weekend!

Rodica Mihalis, M.S. Counseling and Clinical Psychology
Life’s Crossroads and Wellness Coaching

Lesson Learned from The Free Trian Cobo DM/Rejuja Glow “FREE TRIAL!!!” Experience

As I was getting ready to write this post about the happy conclusion to my personal experience with the “FREE TRIAL,”  to let you all know that my bank, Bank of America, concluded their investigation and their conclusion was that my claim was correct. As a result, they awarded me the full credit of the transaction which their investigation concluded was a scheme. I was just going to share this with you and say, thank you, Bank of America, your professionalism is outstanding and I am glad you are my bank!

As I was starting to write this short post, I received a new comment by TIPPER which put the whole experience in a whole new perspective. The information in this comment is so valuable, I felt I MUST encourage you to read it. It is the last comment on my blog, and brings into the picture a new perspective and other products such as Acai berries, Geopharma, Fulfillment Center and an UNBELIVABLE CONCEPT  to rip off customers with little risk of being discovered!. I encourage all the readers to go to Tipper’s Comment for the details! 

The summary is that this company has been ripping  off people for the last 10 years!!! How could this be possible??? For the details please read Tipper’s comment,  which I did not entirely verified. However Geopharma did file for bankruptcy.

The concept is that when too many complaints are filed and ONE product and the NAME of the respective company  become well known as being a scheme, the SAME people,  CHANGE not only the product which is marketed but the name of the company!

THE ONLY CONSTANT is the location, their warehouse is the same, in Largo, Florida. In other words, it is possible that people are being ripped off by the same company disguised under different names and selling different products!

I thought this information is extremely valuable, so an extra thank you to Tipper and to all the readers who commented and helped us all to understand this type of scheme.

Please, if you continue to discover anything that you think is wrong and dishonest, share with us. There is so much Evil in the world, at least through our combined small actions we tip the scale in favor of the Good in this world in hopes we, together will make it a better, safer place. Thank you all for your contributions and for reading my blog.

Consumer Complaints that Get Results –Practical Tips

A friendly warning:

If you are someone who never gets upset, not even when some company takes out of your account almost $100.00 without your consent or knowledge, if your attitude stays positive no matter the degree of injustice done to you, please STOP reading this post because it will not help you or entertain you.

This post contains very practical  and to the point information  for people who wish to fight back an injustice and don’t know how to go about it. The purpose of this writing is to save others time and hopefully help them get back money taken from their accounts without their knowledge or consent.

I will not repeat the story explained in the two previous posts, but start from where I left off on Saturday, August 10, 2013, when I discovered that $92.61 had been taken out of my checking account and I did not given approval for any amount to be taken out and wasn’t familiar with the company which withdrew the money.

General Rule # 1:

If you notice on your bank account any activity of which you are not aware, the FIRST action to take is  to call the company which withdrew the money from your account. Generally, their phone number is on your bank account, next to the amount which was taken out and the name of the company. If customer service number 1 is not willing or capable to resolve the problem, ask for a manager. Assuming a manager is available, write down their name and take notes while you speak to them. It is vital to know the date you contacted the party you believe at fault and know the name of the people you spoke with and what they said, or didn’t. Document, document, document.

General Rule #2:

Call your BANK and report what happened. Generally it will take three days from the date the company in question took money out of your account, for your bank to be able to begin the dispute process. Generally, there is a phone number on the back of your card (debit or credit). If you call the general number, after several prompts you will speak with the DISPUTES Department. The person in charge will ask you DATES (when happened, what) and the NAME(S) of people you spoke with and if you attempted to resolve the issue directly with the company you are reporting at fault. For these reasons, General Rule number 1 is so important. If your claim is reasonable and you have a good bank, which I am lucky to have (Bank of America), they will credit to your account the amount disputed, while they investigate. What this means, is, that if the bank’s final findings are that your claim didn’t have a foundation, they will inform you of the reasons, and withdraw the amount initially credited back to your account.

If you have a sense of right and wrong and justice, which I do, you could take additional steps and perhaps by your actions help other people, who otherwise might be fooled.

You may write or call the local Better Business Bureau    ( but I found that the most efficient way is to simply go on the web site of the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), which protects consumers, and write a complaint on line. You could accomplish it by going to: and follow the very clear instructions of the site.

I believe in the power of journalism and that if more people would take a small amount of time out of their busy lives, there would be less schemes and crimes. If we would only try to do a little for others and not expecting something for us. If only our egos would be a little smaller and our hearts bigger…

With that in mind, I did several searches and found a very useful article on Consumer Health Digest (CGD), which I wished I read BEFORE starting the “FREE TRIAL” for Skin DM and RejuvaGlow Combo! The article, written by Expert Author Linda Daniels, provides to the point information which had I had the smarts to read before giving my debit card  for the “free trial,” for shipping only ($3.95)  none of this unfortunate and expensive experience would have happened!

Additional options.

Unless you wish to spend a fee of $25 to make a complaint, I do not recommend writing through Consumer Complaints Agency ( Again, had I been more “alert” when it came to the language used, “want revenge?”  question should have alerted me! Who wanted revenge? I sure didn’t! I wanted justice, I wanted others to not be fooled as I was, and of course I wanted my $92.61 back!  But the $25 fee was not stated at the beginning, so I filled in the form on the Consumer Complaints Agency site until the VERY last moment, when they asked HOW did I want to pay the $25.00 fee… then quickly I closed the window and hoped they didn’t “save” my information.

Today is Wednesday, August 14 and I am closing the chapter of this “free trial,” but before I closed it, I noticed on their web site not only that the BIG title (in bright purple) states: MY SKIN MD!!! (and continues down the page with DM!!! just a convenient typo) and further on, it states the “combo SkinDM/RejuvaGlow” is OUT OF STOCK, but don’t worry, NOW “MY SKIN MD EXCLUSEVLY RECOMMENDS” a NEW COMBO:


Would anyone like to bet they, too, belong to two different companies, so if  I were to be a fool again, and return BOTH to the same warehouse, just as with the SkinDM/RejuvaGlow, I’d be charged for not seeing in my Crystal Ball that I were supposed to return them to TWO different places! Rest assured I will NOT be fooled again:)

Buyer BE AWARE. Every day, the evil minds of super intelligent crooks come up with new, more complex schemes. Many times I wonder, why don’t these super-smart people use their amazing minds in the service of Good?

I don’t have an answer… do you?